Severely limited by intractable migraines, Thompson
founds web-based ministry
By Josh Johnson
LIBERTY LAKE — She’s a high school valedictorian
forced to withdraw from college three times. She’s a
runner rarely able to set foot outside her Alpine Shores
home. She’s an aspiring ER doctor who has averaged
monthly emergency hospital trips as a patient.
And she’s a tenacious fighter — her family nicknamed
her "The Doberman." She’s a fighter forced to grapple
with defeat after defeat as her own unique prerequisite
to victory.
It’s been five years since Dana Thompson last
experienced a clear head, twice that since the migraines
first ambushed life as she knew it. The 26-year-old
Liberty Lake resident suffers from intractable
migraines. She is one of a small fraction of the
migraine-suffering population for which there is no
pinpointed "trigger," and therefore no preventative to
hold the violent headaches at bay.
Thompson said she has seen specialists the world
over. She has spent months in the hospital. Scents,
noises, heat — any number of things can trigger brutal
reactions sending her to her bedroom for escape or to
the bathroom to vomit. She painfully skips family
outings and holidays. Her best weeks are spent chiefly
in her bedroom, her worst in her bed.
And she has two words for you: "Be strong."
Thompson is the founder and CEO of Liberty Lake-based
BeStrong Ministries, a web-based nonprofit "founded to
introduce others to Jesus Christ and provide resources
for growth and encouragement," according to its website,
www.strongwithgod.org. She started the ministry last
April, and Thompson said future goals include everything
from supporting missions and starting an online lending
library to one day opening a facility to meet free basic
medical needs.
Despite the fact she has been thrilled with having a
hands-on ministry she can work with from her bedroom,
Thompson said she has set up the ministry’s bylaws so
that BeStrong can exist without her.
"I don’t see BeStrong Ministries as my reason for
existence or a way to make myself feel better with
migraines," Thompson said. "It’s just kind of the next
thing that happened in knowing God."
A 40-acre childhood
Growing up on a 40-acre ranch in Colorado, Thompson
made her mom, Karen Thompson, worry she might meet God
before her time. As a very young child, Thompson’s
favorite pastime was to lie on the ground underneath her
favorite animals: the family horses.
"I would lay on my back with my feet by their front
feet and my head by their back feet. I would watch their
big bellies expand as they breathed." Thompson said.
"When Mom first caught me doing this, I am told I was
about 2 years old. … She looked out her window and saw
me, nearly panicking. She wanted me to get out from
under the horse immediately but was afraid of spooking
the horse. As soon as I was away from the horse, she set
me straight. I should have stayed under the horse. Then
she couldn’t yell."
Her times under the horses were practically the only
times Thompson could be caught sitting still.
"Dana has three older sisters," Karen Thompson said.
"We used to joke when she was little that if she would
have been the first one, we wouldn’t have had any more
because it took all of us to keep up with her."
Karen Thompson said her daughter used to spend hours
running the perimeter of the ranch, jumping rabbit
bushes as her ponytail flew through the air. Her
parents, including father John Thompson, the head
chaplain for the Spokane County Sheriff’s Office,
admired their daughter’s intensity and strength even as
they struggled to keep up with her.
"Of all the girls, we had thought, ‘She’s going to do
something big," Karen Thompson said.
‘One big headache’
At age 15, Dana Thompson began getting typical
migraines, something her mother is also susceptible to.
Little by little, they began to cause her to miss out on
recreational events like time with friends and track as
well as an increasing amount of school.
"After a while, the headaches would start lasting for
a week, or two weeks or a month," Thompson said. "Then
the periods of migraines got longer and more intense and
(the time between) got shorter. Eventually, it was just
one big headache."
Thompson persevered, working with her teachers at
Valley Christian High School to make up for missing
weeks of school at a time in order to graduate as
valedictorian of her class. She pushed through her first
year as a pre-med student at Washington State University
before having to pull out weeks before the end of the
spring semester. She tried again the following fall but
had to pull out again after two weeks. After taking a
full year off, she attempted college a final time the
following fall at Carroll College in Montana but had to
withdraw after six weeks.
"I loved school so much (at Carroll that) I was
excited to go back to my room and do homework," Thompson
said. "When I had to withdraw from Carroll in October
2000, I was pretty miffed."
What followed was a self-described "dark period" of
her faith.
"I really thought I was going to fight my way through
(the migraines) and grin and bear it and nothing was
going to stop me, so when I got knocked back down, I was
angry," Thompson said. "I thought I had done everything
right, but God betrayed me. If someone said ‘Do you want
to be released (from the migraines)?’ I’d be all over
it. But on the other side, it’s kind of a paradox. I’ve
come to know Jesus in such a different way. … And to
know the peace he gives — the joy and the happiness and
that calm in your soul — is worth more than any
experience of migraines. There’s just a paradox of
suffering sometimes."
Thompson counts her mom as her primary care provider
and one of her biggest supporters, as well as the person
who is most sensitive to what she is going through.
Sometimes, people allege that Thompson is "milking" her
predicament, something that those closest to her
vehemently deny.
"Everyone’s got an answer and all these quick fixes
(for the migraines)," Mom Karen Thompson said. "To say I
have a tumor on my left knee would somehow be easier to
deal with than migraines. It’s like a stigma, and I
think that adds to the difficulty of the disability in
itself. It’s hard to comprehend. And it’s all in your
head. And people can take that so many ways."
Be strong
The epiphany to start a website was ironic in the
sense Thompson did not know much about designing or
maintaining an online presence. That’s where Liberty
Lake’s Idea Rockets Consulting came in. Thompson spotted
them in a Liberty Lake Community Directory ad, and soon
Idea Rockets President Kristen Maes was on the other end
of the line.
Maes, who is a Christian, loved Thompson’s idea and
decided to do a lot of work for the ministry for free.
"(Dana) is a super nice and generous person and an
inspiration for kind of following your passions," Maes
said. "I think it’s easy to sometimes give up and feel
sorry for yourself, but I don’t see that in her, which
is pretty admirable."
Similar things attracted Traci Crisp-Macy to BeStrong
Ministries, where she serves as treasurer on the
nonprofit’s board.
"I just truly admire Dana for her strength, and when
she is not feeling well, she just keeps going,"
Crisp-Macy said. "I’m totally behind her in the website
and to reach people in chronic pain, and I really think
that’s a good thing. But the website is also geared to
people who have not met Jesus yet."
In a sense, however, Thompson said everyone has their
version of "chronic pain."
"I don’t think I’m an exceptional case or out of the
ordinary," Thompson said. "All of us have something that
hinders us or discourages us. Maybe not every day, but
all of us have something where at some point in our
lives we hit something that is bigger than us."
Thompson said the website is her way to reach people
in a non-threatening way, where they have the free will
to take the information or leave it ("I believe Christ
has an abundance to offer everyone, but he also doesn’t
like people to be forced into it," she said).
Neither is she threatened by the prospect that she
may suffer never-ceasing migraines the rest of her life,
not that she doesn’t think about the possibility of
having a clear mind again.
"I tend to be non-emotional and very logical, very
practical, black and white," Thompson said. "So I have
that side of me, but I’m still a dreamer. On a
day-to-day basis when I go to bed tonight, I don’t
think, ‘Hey, maybe tomorrow would be different.’ But
when I think long term, I think maybe someday."
Fast facts about Dana
Thompson
Date and place of
birth
Nov. 13, 1979, in Salida, Colo.
Family
Father, John; mom, Karen;
sisters, Dawn, Ember and Elle; half-brother, Adam
Pet
Bear, "my little therapy
dog"
I would like to visit
...
Russia
Favorite author
Mikhail
Sholokhov
Favorite movie
Doctor Zhivago
Favorite Bible verse
Philippians
3:10, "That I may know him and the power of his
resurrection and the fellowship of his sufferings, being
made conformable to his death."
Favorite book of the Bible
1
Peter
My ideal situation
"Practicing
medicine in Russia, whether it be an orphanage or a
basic medical facility. Or a million dollars with my
ranch in Montana. Either one. I’m sure they’re
compatible."
BeStrong Ministries
website
www.strongwithgod.org